What's the hurry-children? money? Apart from needing to get on with your life, or make a bold declaration of independence, the most common and deeply felt sources of urgency are about children and money.
I'm tired of listening to people talk about how much they "regret" something that they've done or should have done...My advice... take it or leave it:LET IT GOIt's over, done, finito, 5000...Quit living in the past... and quit hanging on